All I could do yesterday was to go with the flow, H is on AD's but still had a very low day as you know, he went very quiet and non communcative. That and the fact I had to stay in the same room as him as it was the only one with heating really pushed me to the limit. It would have been easy to give him complete peace but on the other hand would have looked as if I was being distant, so I opted for quiet but attached, we cuddled watching a movie and that seemed to do the trick. Think total detachment can some times seem cold, we can detach the bit of us that wants to fix things but attach the normal affection and kindness we would give them.. dont know if that makes sense.
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
