well, from what I have seen, your H has shown that...but obviously not in the way you want it. So be more specific because that is very vague.
I say that he has been showing you that, because he's constantly asking you questions following you around, etc. To me, that sounds like he wants and needs your input.
So what specific things can you list that you want H to do?
I remember listing "eye contact from H" that was when it was really bad.
how about, hug, told I look nice, clean the dishes, etc.
and I think it would be a great idea to go here and have him take the test...just 25-30 short questions
or maybe while sitting at coffee one day, just tell him you want to do a quiz, print it out before hand, and start asking him the questions. then go check it out online later. don't even say what the answer is unless he asks. I think he'll be real confused at that. lol
don't ask him to read the book. he's like my H, there's no way he'll read it,
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
