How do I expose the affair

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Let me see if I understand this correctly. I shouldn't bring up the A, or pressure him to talk about it, is that correct? If it does get brought up (by him), then tell him what Allen A suggested, as if he's already confessed it to me?

Should I keep snooping, and collecting evidence? Or do I just get in touch with OWH, and leave it at that? I cannot believe how hard it is to find someone's cell phone #. However, I do have someone trying to track down a phone # of anyone that might know OWH.

Allen A: I do agree that his guilt was leading him to get D as soon as possible. When I exposed to him that I knew, the very next day he went and got a L and filed. However, since then I have remained mostly calm, and non-emotional about it, as well as letting him know that even with the information I have, I still want to work on the M. It has defiantly made him slow down, and consider working on the M now more then ever before.