Sorry you have a house full of sickies. BF is a pain in the ass when he's sick too. I have stopped trying to nurse him because he doesn't appreciate it and it just drives me crazy. Had to file it under not his LL.
Speaking of LL, it's ok to try to figure H's out but it may not be accurate. I thought for sureBF's primary LL was AOS. When he took the test it turned out his primary LL is QT and secondary is WOA. I told him I thought it was AOS because he's always getting stuff done, but he said he does things because they need doing, nothing more to it.
If H won't read the book, perhaps try a couple weeks of each one until you get a response.
I haven't popped over to the alt yet but will run to the loo then check in.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
(((Mind))) Just a friendly hug for your day... hope it gets better! BTW, you sound like you are doing great keeping up with your strategy... that takes strength and you are doing it!
