Ok, Mark, what you say makes sense! So maybe

Quote:
"I feel you have treated me like x. Examples a,b, c. We each have requirements re: respect and consideration. If they aren't being met, we should be able to discuss them without drama.
I will not be able to do any favors for you until you begin to treat me with respect. Your feelings are important to me and I will listen to any concerns you have."


and I will butt out now! blush


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004