"I feel you have treated me like x. Examples a,b, c. We each have requirements re: respect and consideration. If they aren't being met, we should be able to discuss them without drama. I will not be able to do any favors for you until you begin to treat me with respect. Your feelings are important to me and I will listen to any concerns you have."
and I will butt out now!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004