Realistically, I'm expecting to feel better because I'm not "feeding" a person who leaves me "starving," anymore.
hey, this sounds like a goal for YOU!! gooood point...this is what will help us detach, right? just trying to make ourselves feel better without regard to the H? I'm getting it...
it also is focusing on the present.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004