i think i have fell into a R conversation trap 2 times today...stupid emotions keep getting the better of me lately. I was very firm today when asked what "we" should do about our sit.
I stood by my old stand by after she pressured about one of us leaving the house "this is your decision", i told her "and if she felt it necessary that one of us not be around then she should make arrangemants to be elsewhere".
this is the part i think i f'ed up - she then said something along the lines about "i would hate here" - i told her i wouldn't hate her, and i didn't want her to go anywhere, but i wasn't going to make life easy for her either (meaning paying for her car, cell phone, food, clothing outside of our home).
did i just cause more damage? and what else can a person do to keep on the road to DB'ing when confronted like that (living in the same house i am guessing this could become a daily thing)
slow down stuipd emotions..think first..grrrr.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
