I hope things go well for you this week at court. The light at the end of the tunnel is almost upon you- are you ready for it? I'm thinking of you- Hugs, Bunny
I hope things go well for you this week at court. The light at the end of the tunnel is almost upon you- are you ready for it? I'm thinking of you-Hugs, Bunny
Thanks. Might be a couple of paper/email loose ends from last night's (this morning's) email stuff.
Am I ready for it? Yes: I expect either a huge weight to be lifted or a huge weight to come crashing down on me.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
"Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow... Full of sound and fury, Signifying nothing."
“Now is the accepted time, not tomorrow, not some more convenient season. It is today that our best work can be done and not some future day or future year. It is today that we fit ourselves for the greater usefulness of tomorrow. Today is the seed time, now are the hours of work, and tomorrow comes the harvest and the playtime.”
W. E. B. Du Bois
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May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Serious question. I'm not being frivolous or cute.
You may recall that at one time Dia (seconded by Coach) double-dog-dared me to lighten up a Mediator meeting by showing up with Groucho Marx mustache glasses or those glasses with "the googly eyes on springs!"
I never did (Damn!).
Back to question: years ago, Mrs.G and I talked on the phone for weeks before finally meeting. We made a date to meet the first time. She said,"How will I recognize you?" I jokingly said, "I'll be the one weraring a red carnation." And I was. I did. First time I laid eyes on her.
I was thinking of wearing one to court tomorrow. Not to be cute, not to be romantic, not to be sentimental, not to be ironic, not to be sarcastic or even wise-ass.
Just to "complete the circle," so to speak. And to help lighten an occasion that could use some lightenin up.
So, I'm curious: whaddaya think? Cast your votes.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Hi, Gardener, just stopping by and although I didn't read all 99 pages, I read a little from the beginning, middle and present.
Wow have you done a good job taking care of yourself through this crap! I see that you have heeded advice from the good people here on the forum but you are giving out quality advice to others as well!(by posting your "life" and actions as well as going to others' threads!)
What's funny is that soooo many of us (including you) have said on our threads that we felt like we couldn't give much advice to others b/c we didn't know what we're doing.
But now I see that even just 1)offering support or a laugh is helpful and 2)it's always helpful to hear from those on the outside just to consider other options.
Anyway, I'm glad you decided to post on others' threads!
Now what plans do you have to celebrate surviving the legal muck of the D when it's done? Sorry if you told us on page 73 or 84...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
G - Do the right thing for you. Who cares what everyone else thinks? If wearing a red carnation provides you with some closure, then by all means, wear it. However, if you are going to wear the flower to get a reaction or rise out of STBXW then skip it.
Really think about your motives here.
(((G)))
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
