Quote:
"I feel you have treated me like x. Examples a,b, c. If you continue this, I will treat you the same way. This means no favors until I feel my feelings are important to you. Yours are to me and I will listen to any concerns you have."


Hi, I've been lurking and just wanted to give my opinion...the red sounds childish. The blue is unclear...how will she know that she has shown that your feelings are important to her?

I actually find gnosis' suggestion for wording to be attractive...strong and confident. Since you know your W and we don't, any way to blend the two(your latest idea and gnosis)?

just giving a female POV smile

Last edited by newmama; 02/08/10 06:49 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004