Mb, if you asking about his affair and such is making him feel guilty such that he will eventually admit it and end it, then keep asking... I just don't know if that's likely to b the end result.
Suppose his guilt overhwelms him and he can't take it anymore... will that make him come clean, end his affair and go to FT with you, or will it make him pick a fight with you, STILL not admit to an affair, but he will instead divorce you outright?
Guilt doens't always make people nicer people... it may just make him desperate and impulsive... if he feels really guilty he may just divorce you to end the guilt...
I know it makes NO sense to divorce if you feel guilty, but tha'ts not gonig to stop him from doing it... affairs are senseless activities to start with...
If his guilt is giong to get you where you want your marriage to go then keep asking... just be aware of WHERE you are pushing him when you pursue this...
