One of the things I noticed with my H is that he could not stand the idea that I could not trust him or believe things that he said.
I too, even very recently, was spewed upon because I had boyfriends before I even met H. And yes at one point was accused of having A with them during the marriage. I didn’t but that is irrelevant.
Everything you have heard is really typical. The mood swings, niceness, apologies… It is all typical and normal.
If you haven’t, you should dive into the resources and the archives. It will help you realize that you are not alone and allow you to recognize generalized MLC behavior. As you can do that, it will make it easier to deal with as it happens.
Even though he is not happy about you protecting yourself and your children, it really is necessary for you to do so. If he ever wakes up, he will understand why you have done it.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
