Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Mindfull, VERY GOOD JOB!!I have been trying to avoid sharing trips together in the car to prevent myself from having to tlk to him! The car rides are tough.

And I am sure he is noticing...but it will probably take a looong time for it to sink in.

I have a q- what are you expecting/wanting to happen as a result of limiting conversation? What do I expect/want?

Just wondering how we will measure whether we are achieving "results." Haven't thought that far ahead!