Trying to move on

[awest1217]

This is the part that is hardest with D. You are still both parents and honestly share the girls. From now until forever, you both will be at the important dates for the girls; birthdays, plays, meets, recitals, graduation, wedding, grandchildren's births, and then it all starts over. You will always see each other, and it is hard to decide if you are going to share those times or do them separately (at least the birthday part). It is hard to know what to do. I hope you find some strength to decide.