Great points. Thank you. I do have them get her cards every year so I won't stop that, but I will just take them to the store and tell them to do it.
I don't know what is small stuff and what is not. I feel like being in my head is the safest place to be at this point. Not that it is different from how I normally am.
Me 36 W 40 S 13, 9, 7 ILYBNILWY 2-08 Discovered EA 3-08 Reconciled 7-08 She says she's been faking it 11-09 She wants to separate 12-09