Cutter,

Great points. Thank you. I do have them get her cards every year so I won't stop that, but I will just take them to the store and tell them to do it.

I don't know what is small stuff and what is not. I feel like being in my head is the safest place to be at this point. Not that it is different from how I normally am.


Me 36
W 40
S 13, 9, 7
ILYBNILWY 2-08
Discovered EA 3-08
Reconciled 7-08
She says she's been faking it 11-09
She wants to separate 12-09