Going to the lawyer to get a divorce wasn't exactly what I meant about stop having a pity party.
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I know I don't have the choice anymore,
That is not true.
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I've not focused in on how much pain the MLC'er is in. I've been too focused on my pain----and convinced myself that my once very loving H was so convinced that what he was doing was right that he had lost all emotion and feeling and thus just didn't care about my pain. Guess I should have stopped wallowing in self pity long ago.
Yeah, you should have.
So let me ask you, have you changed any behaviour on your part that you found lacking in yourself? Have you become more independant? Have you improved yourself? Or have you stayed the same? Worn your battered heart on your sleeve the whole time?
Yeah they are in MLC and they are f-ing crazy, but some if not many of their complaints about us ARE valid.
We take a look at those complaints and find WE don't like them either and we change them for ourselves? And when they look at us they see a better person? Or they see the same person they associate with their turmoil?
You had a choice, hell you still do.
Cowgirl up TCBTE.
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It's not my choice, but out of my hands.
coward.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
