Thank you everyone,
I agree that I need to stop pursing the idea of having H admit to the A. As puppy put in my other thread "The best revenge is GAL and being the best person you can be". I'm struggling with this, but I am getting better at it.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10