Thank you everyone, I agree that I need to stop pursing the idea of having H admit to the A. As puppy put in my other thread "The best revenge is GAL and being the best person you can be". I'm struggling with this, but I am getting better at it.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10