I've been out nine months now and I don't mind emails -- although she comes over as terse -- or texts, but I really don't like talking to her on the telephone or seeing her.
Right now for me any contact is negative unless it is her calling to grovel and beg for forgiveness. That day is unlikely to ever arrive.
As far as NC is concerned it seems this is her MO as well. I guess this shouldn't be surprising after all the WAW is the one who pulled the pin, so one must assume that NC is what they want and it is an easier task for them to pull off. Although, I really don't find it all that difficult to maintain as of yet. I'm done with FB, besides I never really had page anyway.
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In my case, she hasn't filed anything and D10 tells me the money troubles are piling up.
Sounds familiar. My W is out of work and has blew thru a $34K (401k)in less than 90 days and then moved out. Her monthly nut is in the neighborhood of 5k now. She plans on cashing out her other 401k with is half of the first one. Her safety net is her brother who is a multi millionaire and although she is prideful she will likely swallow it and ask for his assistance. Which he will most likely give, othewise she would be doomed.
Because of this she will be pushing hard to sell our home ASAP.
My weekend was uneventful as far as my sitch is concerned. I thought the SB was great until Peyton's pick six. Had a couple of buddies over for BBQ. Got some go exercise and slept well.
The kids will be back with me when I get home from work tonight, looking forward to it.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
