Need objective viewpoint

[Ozymandias]

I'm vacillating between doing nothing and something insignificant. I also thought about going out to dinner but not mentioning it at all.

I also just thought that I will need to make sure that the boys each get their mother a card. Maybe I will just have them give theirs to her and let it be.

Mountain,

I am never mean. I don't yell. I don't lose my cool. In our relationship she is the Romulan and I am the Vulcan. So much so that I have contemplated being mean and showing my anger as a potential 180.

I have to go into this weekend with negative expectations so that I will not get upset and hurt. On one hand I would love it if she made an overture, but at the same time it would really screw with my head (do I deny her and set her reeling, but thinking that I may have someone else so it is ok to continue doing what she is doing; or do I go with it knowing that it may be her attempt at reconciliation, but also could be her attempt at pacification).

I know I am over-thinking, but this is how my mind works.