i think that's fair, OTM. i do want to know how he can hurt so much and still keep his distance, i guess. he did text me this morning and just again say he hoped the dog and i had everything we needed.
How did that make you feel? Maybe that is the kind of hope you need to hold on to. Not a "I wish I could", but "you never know"...
Originally Posted By: trytryagain
but i think most women operate in that cycle of needing to know they are loved.
I'm starting to get that idea more. I hope he is, too, for the sake of any R he is in.
For me, the idea that problems might come up later with someone else has come up many times. There is a certain degree of hope in the N.American man perhaps that says I've learned and won't screw up or, we were just a bad mix that tasted really good. I'm not agreeing - I've read too much for that. I wish I could talk to him and convince him to read what I've read!
Going through ADHD as a married person is like a MLC, but it isn't.
