OK so I woke up with S in the middle of the night and it dawned on me that DUH of course WH is going somewhere with OW!
You see 1) he said is going to a city that is only 1 hour by airplane 2) he has never been on a work trip where he stays the night on Friday! 3) When he and I used to go places, we would often do a Thurs-Sat because the airline and hotel rates are cheaper.

So it doesn't make a difference, but it just makes me feel satisfied to know the truth... if that makes sense to anyone out there!

And it explains why when he told me and asked if I had plans Thurs night and I said yes, he kind of got this look like he was "thinking" about what I said...like trying to figure out a change in his plans so I could go? (I KNOW it's mind reading, but I like to think of it as FACE reading, LOL!)
When I saw that, I remember thinking why does it matter-can't do anything about a work trip! ANd I said that, too, like "it's okay, you gotta go on your work trip, I'll figure it out!"


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004