Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Gardener, I pointed out my age difference to explain that I think femininity is still around...including the younger generations of women!

Believe me, I am not age-ist and if I do get divorced, will open my "pool" to men in their 40's...BUT NOT younger than me! My mom has told me that sometimes when men hit their 50s (NOT IN YOUR CASE, Gardener!!), they "resign" to an "old man life" and act older than they are! I don't know if this is true but it made me laugh when she said it. 50 is the new 35, right? :-)