Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

I feel a little bad trying to point out the difference between the sexes and our DBing efforts...I guess it comes down to trying to detach and then make self improvements and deciding if you want to stay with your H or W or BF/GF etc. If you do, then you watch and monitor results to see if their behavior changes as a result of your changes. If you don't want to stay you just let them file for D or you file for D.

So sorry about the rant!