"When you blatantly avoid updating me on the girls I feel like you don't care about my feelings. I want you to tell me what is going on in my kids' lives. If you continue to keep me out of the loop on their lives I see no need for me to do you any favors."
Next boundary:
"These last six months you have treated me with contempt. I feel that I deserve more than that. I want that to stop. If you continue to think that I'm your enemy and treat me like one then I don't see why I should be helping you."
Letter-perfect. Both.
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Originally Posted By: TooLateForMe
I don't want to upset her.
And therein lies your problem.
BINGO!
TooLateForMe: Heed!
p.s./aside: Guys, please visit Gypsy over at Surviving today.
Last edited by Gardener; 02/08/1004:30 PM.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
