How do I expose the affair

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Thanks,
H is still denying the A. I've known this man for so long, and I can tell that the guilt is eating him alive. One day he's ready to work on it and the next he's done again. I finally just told him that I can't help him anymore with his lost or confused feelings. And that he has to figure all that out on his own. He did tell me that he is worried that I won't wait for him. I told that I didn't know how long I was willing to wait, but that was my decision for myself. I just don’t know how I can get him to be honest with me about the A. I’ve told him that if he had an A, it wouldn’t change my mind about wanting to work on the M. I don’t know if he is afraid of my reaction or not.

There is so much evidence that points to a PA, but no concrete proof. What if he is telling the truth that there has been no physical (other then the kiss he admitted too, which he said was just on her forehead as a friend). Deep down, I don’t believe him; I do think there is a PA going on.

This may sound bad, but I give credit to the WAS’s whom are willing to come clean and admit their A.