I probably ask for an exact accounting of where the money went. I used to be very controlling when it comes to money issues. I have changed a great deal in that regard, and my W knows it. If I ask for a receipt, I'd be the same guy I used to be. 19 months have passed since my W left. I want her to see that I trust her 100% with what she'll do with the money.
I know it sounds like I have no boundaries and I am desperate for her kindness. But I have changed quite a bit. I sure appreciate your input though. Thanks for taking the time.
JR09
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11