Thanks Cutter- still cant post from home b/c my computer is fried.
Update- pretty much no contact but had to text her about finances- she owes me quite a bit of money...I felt the text was polite: Can you make good on some of the money you owe me? I should have a renter soon, so that will help. i'm kinda left holding the bag."
W- you could sell my movado (if its even real) and my tanzanite ring...
M- I dont understand why the rude reply, you've borrowed money, if you dont have it you dont have it.
This situation has really bothered me- last week she said I "never provided for her."
She has not paid a thing in 4 months, I gave her money for her car (3 years ago), I paid her phone bill and half of her half of rent for years. I am starting to really want nothing to do w/ her.
I spent time w/ my friends this weekend, dinner movies, did the yard, cleaned the house and went for a 10 mi walk yesterday.
I read Codependant No More, 7 Marriage Principles, Contemplating Divorce, and Marriage Makeover.
W is supposed to come over to see the dogs later. I am tempted to lay into her over all that I've done in the past- and remind her of how selfish and self-centered she's being. Not sure that I will- I might just say nothing at all and let the silence prevail.
