Sometimes I wonder if this is MCL or WAS because financially (at least not yet)H has shown great consideration in how we are doing financially. If he had money he was generous, if not, he would tell you. Seems to be his pattern now. He has done some work in the OW's house. Not sure who paid for for the laminate floor he put down in her tiny little place. (H doesn't know I know) He definitely will watch out for himself tho. He matches up with MCL with the rest of his actions tho.
Living Trust is the way I'm leaning after all this settles out.
When do I tell H that this is HIS Separation and D if it goes that far? I will not help with it but I WILL protect myself and the kids.
Thanks everyone for your advice, it takes some of the fear out of this.
