Like your sitch, my H has said he would like to get a D as cheaply as possilbe using the same atty etc. It has not progressed to that stage yet (btw it's 3 years post bomb for me), quite possible b/c I said I didn't want a D and would not help him (translation: separate atty's).
While I am no help b/c I haven't gotten that far, I will tell you when it does happen I will retain my own counsel. Not to bleed him, but to look out for my best interests.
Try not to let you fear get in the way with regards to the property (or anything for that matter). I wouldn't offer what your plans are until he asks and then if you need more time, say so.
Have you considered a living trust with regards to your assets?
I know the others that have much more experience than I will give you some good feedback.
