Update: Had another blowup last night when she arrived home again at 12:30 am after leaving for a "SuperBowl Party" at 1 pm. She arrived back looking slovenly-no makeup, hair up in pony tail, etc after leaving looking nice and neat, hair straightened, makeup, etc. I'm not dumb. She made some smart-a@@ comment about me, and I just unloaded on her.
I don't know why this has happened for the second time in a week. I think maybe it's because I don't care anymore? It's wrong, yes, and counterproductive, but I didn't realize how much stuff I bottled up the past several months. Her cake eating, lying, etc just got to me.
