My H is MLC. I see torment in his eyes sometimes, sadness and no motivation for enjoyment. He often has tears in his eyes, looks old and grey and is spending money like water so his business is now at risk. When I watch him even OW doesn't appear to have any positive impact on him anymore!
Despite this he tells us he is happy!
He has been gone since Aug 09. Initially I was completly traumatised by the bomb. Now I can see I am definately in a more positive place than he is as he struggles to deal with his emotional childhood issues and the whole thing engulfs him and I can't help him he has to work it out for himself.
