I am 20 years younger than you and do not see femininity going away...I see more women gaining financial independence, expecting men to know how to cook and share household duties..
. Oh, yeah? Well, I'm twenty years older than you, always held open doors and car doors, did most of the cooking and a hell of a lot of "household" (read: roommate) duties! So there!
btw: what's "t/j"?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac