Depression was one of the things that I suspected in my Wife but it could be a number of things. MLC is just too broad a label but I at least got some comfort after reading about MLC in that the uglyness had a NAME to it. Something I could relate to.
I feel your pain as I am going through it now and she never gave me a clue as to why she was really wanting out.
Her father passed recently and she has an Anyurism (sp?) that we have known about for years. Something that haunted us both. As well as a couple of other classic MLC and WAW signs and scripts.
I hope she is not suffering even though I am. I love her that much. Our divorce is imminent and it looks like she is dead set on moving on without me.
I am trying to come to terms with that fact but having a hard time with it. I wish I could carry her pain and ease her suffering. I just do not know how she feels or what she is thinking. It's torture.
TY for your post.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me