"I feel you don't appreciate my feelings or respect me. I want you to update me on the girls and show that my feelings are as important as yours. If you continue to show that my needs are unimportant to you I will not do you any favors (tax papers or anything else)."
This sounds like I'm using leverage. I just want her to understand that without that appreciation, I am merely a putz that gets the honor of helping her out while she continues to see me as a loser. I'm happy to help her as long as I feel appreciated.
I don't want any more ultimatums, because I don't want to come from that place and don't want them used against me in return.
Last edited by TooLateForMe; 02/08/1007:55 AM.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
