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[gutwrenching]

Hi Rocked.
Good advice. Hope you sitch continues to go well. You are a great role model.

Today was interesting as I suspected, probably due to emotions over dog. I am here to be supportive to W, but so far, she doesn't want any support. Was there for Ds as was W today.

Day seemed to start where night left off, so I just ignored her and did my own thing for a few hours. Then things start to change. W comes down and tells me she is in pain with a "condition" that hasn't been this bad since after she had 2nd child. The medical issue isn't relative, so I won't state what it is, but I am positive she is sincere and positive she is truly in pain. She says she can't go to store for groceries for week. I nicely tell her all she has to do is talk to me, I have no problem going to store. I convince D8 to go with me. While I am gone, W does some serious cleaning in the house...scrubs the stove, oven, microwave, and fridge. And she started folding the laundry that I had done. Wow. Interesting.

W also made sure she helped me put kids to bed and tonight is hanging out with me as she does a little work.

Don't know if this is all because of dog and the raging emotions or just another case of the up/down or her being nice because of the over the counter medication I got for her while out...she was almost afraid to ask me to get the stuff.