Cat is right. The friendly is good and it is what it is for right now. I get impatient wanting to be H and W again, but friendly and being able to have a normal conversation about every day things beats the anger/spew/venom that can go with MLC.
The key is the detachment so that we don't focus so much on the state of their MLC or the future of the M and just live our lives.
And I know, easier said than done a lot of the time, at least initially.
