FM said:
My question now is: is it a trial separation when the H is planning to date? I just don't know how to feel about this. I feel like an idiot, listening to my husband casually talking about dating. What am I supposed to say to things like that??


Did you two discuss the terms of the separation clearly when he moved out or did he avoid the topic? Seems if that conversation hasn't happened yet, as soon as you can handle it might be the time. The rejection ick is awful. I'm with you on the desert.