Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[flowmom]

(((JG))) hope you're doing OK. It sounds like it was really rough when he moved out. My kids were too young to understand really...and they still don't consciously get it. Try to schedule time to "fall apart" away from your kids and unsafe people so that you can maintain your dignity. And let people be there for you if it's helpful.

H moving out felt so wrong to me, but I try to remember that separation gives H the opportunity to finally own his own stuff and not blame me for everything that is going wrong for him. He has work to do and I think he needed the distance of separation to do it.

Hang in there!