DQ, I'd be curious to know if your husband had a significantly stronger sex drive when he was 20. If so, would his drive at that age have been a match for you now?
I'm curious because the issue in my marriage is certainly a developed mismatch. I was very careful to pick someone who appeared to have high drive. But, of course, there is no way to figure out at age 20 if someone is going to sustain a high sex drive until 50 and beyond.
And are there women who are like me, who have had a sustained high sex drive from their teens all the way through middle age? I hear that even when a woman's sex drive is high, it's often more situational and not sustained without exception.
