Oh they do sound alike. Here's another lovely time he chose over me and d2. his sister's wedding out of town. he left me and d2 behind and took his mother and father. i'm vengeful picked up his big screen tv and set it outside for someone to take. be darned if he was going to throw d2 and i out like trash, i'd hit him where it mattered, materials.
What db says about moving back in is to act as if everything is ok and do 180's. they say let him spew his garbage at you, you will be a better person and set some boundaries. there are a bunch of threads with great advice of how to deal with the spouse being verbablly abusive in the same home.
so sorry for the losses of both babies. are you going in with the mindset of provoking him? probably not the best to do. I know I would not be able to do it. there are so many strong people on here who remain in their maritial homes when their spouse is carrying on an affair. but they are set on reconciliation, where i was not so sure now.
my lil big man is doing well, lots of weekly appointments to ob and perinatalists. find out thursday surgery date. h actually thinks he's gonna be allowed in. NOT gonna happen.
before you go back read michelle's book. reread them when you are struggling and feel you can not deal anymore or feel you are going to lose it. they are inspiring books and make most situations seem doable.
your h probably does not really know what he truely wants, sadly he is in a lot of pain as well,.
just you moving back to your home will demonstrate your start of him having to respect you.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
