I really needed some inspiration tonight, so thank you for your thread! It's like reading a fairy tale to me right now.
I haven't read many WAH/MLC stories on the forum that haven't had an A as a focus. Your story resonates with me because we've been together for a long time (17 years) and we have small children. H really withdrew from me about a year after S6 was born, though he only made it official by moving out a month ago.
Once thing that I wanted to ask was, any thoughts on things you did right in the early stages of your separation, that later (much later) paved the way for the piecing action that's going on right now?
Anyway, I'm glad that you're finding some happiness in the present. I hope that your S recovers soon...I just recovered from pneumonia myself and it threw me for a loop.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
