You don't have to walk today or tomorrow, but you do have to be willing to accept that you will eventually walk, and then you have to make that clear in no uncertain terms to your spouse. There is really no other way.
Yes, thanks, that is pretty clear to me at this point. Though I find myself resisting that path so much. It's hard to face up to the fact that I may become another stastic, after so much effort to avoid it. And even after my wife and I years ago talked about how we wouldn't let that happen to us.
