Sandi, thank you for your candid message. Here is an update.
W sends me a text this afternoon. Asks if I would be open to a conversation. We arrange to speak in a few hours. One hour prior to the call she asks if we can meet for coffee instead.
Another thought, while it's on my mind.
Look at the above. YOU'RE TOO AVAILABLE TO HER. You should have said "Today's bad; I have plans. Tomorrow's kinda nuts too. How about Tuesday? I could meet you for coffee late-morning?"