The text messages were December. The calls were 1 week before she left - End of November The locked phone was the day she left. Thinking back, her phone was NOT locked 1 day before she left. Attitude towards friends changing - months before she left.
I have read your threads Puppy. I don't know why I thought asking would accomplish anything.
So if I assume she is having an affair, my position is to drop the rope. But now she seems to be pursuing me a little. How should I respond to that?