Either. Since I have no clue which one my Wife is if any. I can only guess, as most of us do IMO. In my case I see signs of both. Arent the sings basically the same?

Would WAW / MLC make a difference in that regard?

I wanted to bring this question up because it will help how I approach my own wife. I sometime see her as this evil alien and other times as a very sick mental patiant. For the most part I treat her at face value. A woman who probably just burned out on me and my marriage.

And since my emotions are usually involved (damn feelings) I do a miserable job of it.

Knowing more about her possible pain would help me with my anger, lack of empathy and understanding.

Do they feel pain yet color a smile? Is this typical in them? Cant get any info from my wife but I love her enough to be concerned about her feelings and possible pain.


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me