Either. Since I have no clue which one my Wife is if any. I can only guess, as most of us do IMO. In my case I see signs of both. Arent the sings basically the same?
Would WAW / MLC make a difference in that regard?
I wanted to bring this question up because it will help how I approach my own wife. I sometime see her as this evil alien and other times as a very sick mental patiant. For the most part I treat her at face value. A woman who probably just burned out on me and my marriage.
And since my emotions are usually involved (damn feelings) I do a miserable job of it.
Knowing more about her possible pain would help me with my anger, lack of empathy and understanding.
Do they feel pain yet color a smile? Is this typical in them? Cant get any info from my wife but I love her enough to be concerned about her feelings and possible pain.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me