Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Also, am I right that there seem to be more WAW scenarios on the DB forums than WAH?

I see formulas given to the men that all sound the same:
NC+GAL+date other women.

When male vets suggest to the women "this is what worked for me"
I think, yeah, because women won't fly off the handle if their estranged H dates, they will just feel territorial and curious!They will be reminded that their H is desirable, and the act of dating is "confident" behavior. But men would want to kill the other guy and then their egoes would be crushed by their W (right?)I do not mean this to sound sexist; but there are some clear differences between the sexes.


I have run into several female sitches where we are afraid to NC and date for fear of pushing WAH away/into D.
Seriously am thinking of 6 other sitches besides my own right now,