How much do they hurt?

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I was reading some of the old archives and found an old posting stating that the WAW / MLC Spouses hurt just as much as the LBS if not more.

At first this angered me as I am in so much pain and see my STBXW strutting around whisteling dixie like she has no care in the world. She is even gleeful with everyone except me and my Son.

But I made a startling realization. If she is so bent on leaving me then she must be hurting just as much if not more than me. Other than that it could be that she has simply gone completely insane or has a mental problem. This is one of the reasons I asked her to see an MD or MC. She never did.

Anyway, I would like some feedback on what people either know or believe on this subject.

Do these people who have hurt us so much have as much pain as us or more? Big qustion with no real answer but I feel strongly about it.