Like a concerend idiot, I sent my ex a message asking her of she got her car dug out and she said "yes thanks".
I then asked if she found somewhere to watch the superbowl and if not she could watch it with me and D3. She never responded, so I said that I guess I know where she went (OM's) and I'm glad I didnt waste time helping her dig out her car like a fool. I said "your first day of feeling better and thats where you go."
Then I turned my cell phone off.
Originally Posted By: nsw1222
I have low self esteem and too often act like "the nice guy"...with those two things, it makes me feel better to come to someones rescue (and have it acknowledged...and when it isnt acknowledged I feel like crap and get angry).
Yes, you swing wildly between 'love sick little puppy guy' and total butthole.
Originally Posted By: newmama
nsw, don't worry...IF YOU STOP texting now and from this day forward, it can still make an impact. In the positive sense. So I don't agree that the permanent damage has been done. Just pick yourself up and change from this point forward!
I think you need to worry because you keep blowing it big time. You've done damage but better to start now than not at all. If you do blow it and pursue again, at least try not to compound the problem by acting like a total jerk when you don't get the response you hoped for.
