nsw: New Mantra: "Ignore. Ignore. Ignore." Everything. For one week. Give yourself that gift. And let her wonder, fume, and stew in it. And then see what happens after seven days.
Just. Stop.
Simple. And easy.
Originally Posted By: newmama
Hi, nsw--why are you torturing yourself by continuously contacting ex??? starting THIS MINUTE set a goal to not be the first to call or text.
then praise yourself for being strong each hour that goes by where you don't do it.
I understand that it is a lot harder when it comes to being in the same room with ex...but start with not initiating contact first and then you can move to limiting interaction w/ her when you see her.
It is true that women are attracted to strong, confident men. Needy men are a turn off. Now something I have been wondering for months: Is the above the same for what men like in women? Because I see a lot of men on the DB forum who enjoy rescuing or taking care of women.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
