My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

[newmama]

Hi, nsw--why are you torturing yourself by continuously contacting ex??? starting THIS MINUTE set a goal to
not be the first to call or text.

then praise yourself for being strong each hour that goes by where you don't do it.

I understand that it is a lot harder when it comes to being in the same room with ex...but start with not initiating contact first and then you can move to limiting interaction w/ her when you see her.

It is true that women are attracted to strong, confident men. Needy men are a turn off.
Now something I have been wondering for months:
Is the above the same for what men like in women? Because I see a lot of men on the DB forum who enjoy rescuing or taking care of women.