Hey M, I didnt mean let it go entirely, I meant, you to try and work from an assumption he ISNT going back to her, rather than an assumption that he will... becasue, a. thats not healthy seeing as he insists he is done with her (which he DIDNT do that year you give as an example where he was lying to you but still seeing her) and b. it will drive you nuts otherwise??
I did suggest you CONFRONT him about the PC stuff, ask him if there is contact, if he says none, ask him politely to humour you and to set your mind at rest, prove it to you by logging in in front of you to his email.. that he can use his phone to do so if necessary if he is concerned about keyloggers and you respect he hasnt given you the password yet...
You said your pride gets in the way...you 'let him off the hook' and dont ask for things or have conversations you could have. For example, why sit silently fuming at lunch? Perhaps you could have said somehow how great the show was, just a shame he dint hold your hand...?
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
